Mary or Martha?

The last couple of days I have been thinking about Mary and Martha. Where do I fall in that? Am I Mary? Am I Martha?

Last night at church we heard about the virtuous woman. That just gave me more to think about. Am I self-less like the virtuous woman? Am I up and about my business and taking care of my household? When I reach 60 would I qualify as a widow indeed? Have a relieved the afflicted? Have I followed every good work?

Those are my thoughts....Am I Mary or Martha? Am I self-ish or self-less???